He talked about his own life and the unpleasant times that had been a part of his family. But he talked about flash backs of moments when he felt love, such as the memory of his dad hauling sand from the creek bed when he was maybe 4 years old and his brother carrying him after he had cut his foot at maybe 5.
The acts of love he remembered overshadowed unpleasant events he had repressed in his memory. His closing was touching to us: he referred to scripture that exhorts Christ followers to aspire to have the mind of Christ. He said that Bill and Jean Absher came as close to that goal as anyone he had ever met.
|This picture was the one placed on the church altar.
I had to tell them the rest of the story. This picture was take about 4 years ago. It was after Dad had quit driving. It was Valentine's Day and I was going home. Dad motioned for me to come closer-then he whispered a request that I get Mom some roses before I left town. I did and it made them both so happy; the giver and the receiver.
Hospice had a memorial service this afternoon. As they presented the deceased in alphabetical order, Mom's name came up first followed by Dad's. Barbara had provided the picture of them together that had been made for the church directory. Several Hospice workers spoke lovingly of Mom and Dad.
My main thoughts today were about our parents that had completed the race of life and had done it so well. We got to experience the emotions of them crossing the finish line.